Saturday, August 14, 2021

"Nothing in the universe ever grew from the outside in." *

Meditating every day has probably kept me more sane than I know. I have noticed that when I skip meditation the day just doesn't flow the same. Or more likely the day flows as it should, but I don't.

There are thousands of research studies that have documented the benefits of meditation including: decreasing blood pressure; helping to balance blood sugar levels; helping to alleviate pain; reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety; and generally alleviating stress. In fact, Dr. Elizabeth Blackburn (who won a Nobel prize in medicine for her research on telomeres - the end part of a chromosome) has been investigating the effect of stress on telomeres with a particular emphasis on mindfulness meditation. *

Dr. Blackburn has found that stress will shorten the telomeres, which can increase signs of aging at a cellular level. Mindful meditation has been shown to lengthen the telomeres and this can positively affect health and longevity. Fascinating, yes?

I discovered meditation years ago when I was experiencing an acute episode of chronic pain. Sleep was just a fantasy, and having nothing to do except sit or lie on a wood floor I decided to finally try a short meditation. This was my eureka moment when, during that first meditation, I experienced a few moments without pain. Just that small amount of relief made a huge impression on my state of anxiety and mental stress and I have been hooked on meditating ever since.

Many people balk at the thought of trying meditation. What I like to point out is that there are many meditation options available and different ways of integrating it into our lives. Some of my clients have responded positively to sound meditation, some to a more zen focus on the breath, some to walking meditations and some to meditating in nature.

A story I heard recently was about a mother and housewife who told a Bhuddist monk that she literally had no time to meditate. He offered to come and see what a typical day was like for her, and at the end of the day he agreed that indeed she had no time for a formal meditation practice. So he suggested that every time she walked through a doorway she could pause for a moment to take a deep breath.

At the end of the day all these moments of pause can help to decrease stress and feel more connected to the self. Often it is this type of small change in habit that can help the most.

So I urge you to try it out. Find a meditation style that speaks to you, and feel free to integrate it in a way that works best for you.

* Wagamese, Richard  EMBERS One Ojibway's Meditations, p 23,Douglas & McIntyre, 2016

* Blackburn, Elizabeth The Telomere Affect: A Revolutionary Approach to Living Younger, Healthier, Longer,  Grand Central Publishing, Hachette Book Group, 2017

Wednesday, August 4, 2021

Sleep - it can be a faraway dream for many of us. A restful sleep can be a frustratingly rare thing to experience. A few years back I went to a lecture about sleep with a noted naturopath and what she shared was very helpful. Apparently one of the vital things needed for achieving sleep is darkness in the bedroom.

I thought I had all that wrapped up. We have no screens in the bedroom and I put up blackout curtains because of a rather horrible streetlight glare. I was patting myself on the back until she asked if we could see the furniture in our room at night with the lights turned off. We have some light from the window in the hallway streaming into the bedroom because of course, the door is open for the dog to come and go. Did I need to buy blackout curtains for all our windows? Did I need to move to a dark sky preserve in the country? This line of thinking was quickly going from unaffordable to slightly ridiculous. Then she mentioned using a mask - the least expensive and easiest way to achieve the level of darkness necessary for a good sleep. 

That very night I went home and found an old mask wadded up at the back of a drawer. My husband had a questioning look on his face, but on it went and I had a deliciously deep sleep that night. So simple and yes, so satisfying. 

Why is sleep important? Without decent sleep the body just doesn't function well. Lack of sleep can decrease immune function; increase blood sugar levels; increase pain levels and decrease your ability to focus and take in new information. Not to mention the obvious fatigue and emotional factors married to that.

So if you haven't tried a sleep mask give it a go and hopefully those faraway dreams will become your new reality. As Ovid's famous quote states: "Take rest; a field that has rested gives a bountiful crop."

Saturday, July 24, 2021

I love my dentist! Don't get me wrong, having dental work done is a necessary evil close to the bottom of my 'Oh God I have to do this' list, but she is brilliant. She explains everything clearly before she does something and she doesn't skirt around the pain issue. This last visit she was upfront that the needle insertion for freezing in this particular area of my jaw was going to be painful. Somehow that allowed me to steal myself and get through it because I was warned appropriately, and I'm enough of an adult to know it is temporary pain for the greater good. Also, she now has a screen on the ceiling. Normally I'd be somewhat snobbish and dismissive, but I'm over the moon about her latest technological add-on. She had nature videos playing and wow, did that help.

Usually I'm meditating as best I can through the pressure and noise of the drill and clinging onto the very technical conversation between her and her assistant, not understanding a thing they're saying, but somehow taking comfort that they seem so calm and this is just another routine day at the office. This time though was something akin to magic. As the nature videos unfolded in front of me I dove into the greenery of leaves and forests; I delighted in every bird that stopped by to preen or sip from a water source; and I fixated on the greenery again when the drilling was particularly harsh. And then it was over. I felt like a kid who gets rewarded with a lollipop. I half smiled - because freezing - and refrained from hugging her - because it's not that type of relationship. I wanted to explain all the science behind nature contemplation, but I was a good patient and got up to pay my bill.

Just to let you know looking at nature helps, even on screen. It helps to ease stress, and easing stress helps in any situation. There is so much more to being in nature that I could talk about, but if you are interested check out They are living their truth and offering nature based mindfulness practices in innovative and accessible programming.

Props to dentists, and kudos to my dentist for making this little stress so much more bearable.

Wednesday, July 21, 2021

Shiatsu is a Japanese style of massage therapy based on Eastern Medical Theory, that is the foundation for acupuncture. Shiatsu literally translates to 'finger pressure', and is often called 'acupuncture without the needles'. Shiatsu points are located on meridians, which are channels of energy that have been mapped on the body. These meridian channels have been used in Eastern healing practices for thousands of years. The essential idea is that we have energy (called Ki or Qi or Chi) flowing through these meridians. Sometimes this energy gets blocked, diverted or weakened resulting in aches, pains and other symptoms. Self-treating on specific points along these meridian channels can help to decrease pain and alleviate discomfort.

The first point I would like to introduce you to is Large Intestine 4. It is a particularly strong point that can help relieve frontal headaches, sinus pain, toothaches and pain along the arm. *This point should not be self-treated during pregnancy.*

Large Intestine 4 can be found in the webbing between the thumb and forefinger. You can find the point by pressing the index finger and thumb together, creating a mound. Large Intestine 4 is located at the high point of the mound. Once the point is located, release the thumb and apply pressure by pinching this area with your opposite thumb and forefinger. Angle the pressure toward the index finger. Hold the pressure for a breath and repeat as needed. Treat the point on both hands. 

Friday, July 16, 2021

Chronic pain means that you have had the pain on and off for anywhere from three months to years. Like many, I have personally dealt with chronic pain on and off for years. When I encounterd my last pain episode two different doctors recommended surgery for my back. I've met people who have had wonderful results from back surgery, but I am too chicken shit. So I persevered, using a cane to get around, still giving treatments to my clients while trying to ignore my own issues. Now I understood what many of my exasperated clients told me when they said they wished they could sleep standing up. I was in so much pain that I could only sleep on my forearms and knees with pillows stacked up under my stomach, which really meant that I wasn't sleeping. My body would pass out for an hour or so from sheer exhaustion. This is certainly not a sleep position I would ever recommend. I rarely cry and shocked myself by bursting into tears at the drug store. My doctor had given me a pain prescription and I was eagerly dreaming of actually sleeping. The pharmacist burst that bubble telling me that the medication would take 2 - 3 weeks before I felt any difference. So there I was, ugly crying in the drug store. No help in sight as I stood there blubbering and watching people back away from me into the other aisles. Thoroughly embarrassed I finally stumbled outside wiping the tears and snot away when a thought came to me - 'You can do this Kim, you can get through this'. I became determined to find a way through the pain with self-treatment.

The best advice I received was very simple: move. When I was given this advice all I thought was, 'I can't. It hurts too much! How can I possibly do what they're suggesting? How much more pain can I endure?' Then the motivating words came - 'You will be in pain regardless if you move or not, so why not try?' I couldn't argue with that logic. 

It honestly doesn't matter how small the movement is, as long as it doesn't increase your pain. At the beginning of my recovery the movements with my back could be measured in a few centimetres, but over time my mobility increased and better yet, my pain decreased! 

There was a newletter recently from Harvard Medical School that talked about Tai Chi and Yoga as medication in motion rather than meditation in motion. It may take some time to get to the point where you can integrate a larger movement practice into your life. Remember to start small. Movement is lotion for the body and I truly believe it plays a big part in helping with chronic pain issues.